Tired of Living Paycheck to Paycheck? Let’s Build a Solid Foundation for Your Future.
Feeling the pinch at the end of the month? You’re not alone! Many of us experience that dreaded financial anxiety, staring at our almost-empty bank accounts and wondering how we’re going to make it through until the next paycheck. Today, we’re diving into an empowering conversation about breaking free from the paycheck-to-paycheck trap. Ralph Estep Jr. shares practical tips and insights rooted in faith, helping us shift our perspective on money management. The core idea? God owns it all! By understanding our role as stewards of His resources, we can start to manage our finances in a way that honors Him and leads to a more secure future. So, get ready to learn what to do if you are living paycheck to paycheck!
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Let’s unravel that feeling of financial despair together! Ralph emphasizes that it’s not just about how much money you make, but how you manage what you have. We explore actionable steps, starting with the importance of creating a God-honoring budget. Think of it as your financial roadmap, guiding you through the sometimes murky waters of spending and saving. By tracking your income and expenses, you’ll gain clarity on your financial habits, allowing you to make intentional choices that align with your values and goals. Plus, Ralph encourages us to prioritize saving, even if it’s just a small amount. Every little bit counts, and establishing a saving habit can create a buffer for those unexpected expenses that life throws our way.
Chapters:
- 00:18 - Breaking Free from Financial Struggles
- 02:31 - Understanding Financial Stewardship
- 03:15 - Shifting Perspectives on Stewardship
- 06:02 - Prioritizing Savings: Building a Financial Buffer
- 08:11 - Understanding Financial Foundations
- 10:47 - Planning for Financial Freedom
Takeaways:
- It's time to break free from that paycheck-to-paycheck cycle and take control of your finances!
- Understanding that God owns it all shifts our perspective on how we manage money.
- Creating a God-honoring budget is super important for financial stability and peace.
- Prioritizing savings, even a tiny bit, can really help you build a financial cushion.
- Remember, it's all about being a good steward of what God has given us.
- Change takes time, so be patient with yourself and celebrate small victories!
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00:18 - Breaking Free from Financial Struggles
02:31 - Understanding Financial Stewardship
03:15 - Shifting Perspectives on Stewardship
06:02 - Prioritizing Savings: Building a Financial Buffer
08:11 - Understanding Financial Foundations
10:47 - Planning for Financial Freedom
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Are you tired of that Sunday night dread?
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Knowing your bank account is almost empty again.
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Does the phrase paycheck to paycheck feel like your personal motto these days?
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What if I told you there's a different way, a way to build a
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solid financial foundation step by step with guidance rooted in faith?
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Well, on today's Ask Ralph Show, we're breaking free from the cycle.
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You don't want to miss this.
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Hello everyone and welcome back to the Ask Ralph Show.
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I'm your host, Ralph Estep Jr. And I'm so glad you've joined us today.
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For those of you who are new to the show, our mission here is pretty simple to help
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you break free from the cycle of financial shame and build confidence in managing
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your money all through a Christian lens.
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Today we're tackling a topic that I know resonates with so many of us, and that's
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feeling like you're constantly running on empty living paycheck to paycheck.
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Are you tired of that never ending cycle?
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Do you dream of a future where your finances feel solid and secure?
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Well, if you do your in the right place, because today.
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We're gonna start building that solid foundation for your financial
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future, step by step, guided by timeless biblical principles.
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Now, maybe you can relate to this feeling I, I know I felt this way many times.
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I recently heard from a listener, let's call her Caroline,
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who wrote in saying this.
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She said this.
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She said, Ralph.
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I have a good job.
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I really do.
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But by the time the next payroll rolls around, I feel like I'm
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scraping the bottom of the barrel.
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It's exhausting, and honestly, it makes me feel like I'm failing somehow.
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I wanna be a good steward of what God has given me, but I just don't
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know how to break this cycle.
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Well, Caroline, let me just start by thanking you for your honesty.
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Your story is not unique, and today we're gonna find some.
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Some answers to help you get to where you want to go to.
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So what's the first thing we need to understand?
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And listen, this took me years to understand.
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It's the foundation of how we view our finances as Christians,
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and the foundation is this.
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God owns it all.
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Now, that may seem very controversial, but let me explain.
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The Book of Psalms, chapter 24, verse one tells us the earth is
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the Lord's and everything in it, the world and all who live in it.
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So think about that for a minute.
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We are not the ultimate owners, we are stewards or managers of the
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resources God has entrusted to us.
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Now you're probably asking Ralph, why in the world is this important?
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And I'll tell you why.
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Because it shifts our perspective entirely.
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It's not just our money to do with as we please and hear me on this.
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Instead, we need to ask ourselves this question.
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I. How can I best manage these resources in a way that honors God?
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See, this understanding should influence every decision we make about earning the
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decisions we make about spending, the decisions we make about saving and giving.
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I. Imagine if you will, you're put in charge of a valuable piece of property.
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Now, picture this in your mind.
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It's a beautiful home.
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Everything is just perfect.
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You've got that manicured lawn, that white picket fence.
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I mean, you can see this place gleaming as you drive or walk past.
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Well, you wouldn't just let it fall into disrepair, would you?
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No.
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You take care of it.
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You plan for its upkeep and use it wisely.
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Well, listen, our finances are the same.
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They are a tool that God has given us and he wants us to use them responsibly.
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So what's the actionable take away here and listen, I always wanna give
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you action items because ideas are great, but putting your ideas into
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action is where true results happen.
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So here it is.
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Start viewing your finances through the lens of stewardship.
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Ask yourself this, how can I honor God with my money today?
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This simple shift in mindset can be the first step towards breaking
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that paycheck to paycheck cycle.
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I.
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So now that we've laid that foundation, let's talk about some practical steps
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that you can take to move away from that living paycheck to paycheck.
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And here's my first one.
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Step number one, create a God-honoring budget.
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Now, I know the word budget.
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That can sometimes feel restrictive, but think of it as a plan
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or a roadmap for your money.
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Start by tracking your income.
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That's your net income, what you actually take home.
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Listen, just look at your paycheck or the amount that hits your bank account.
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It's really that simple.
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Then what I want you to do for a month is track every single expense.
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You might be surprised at where your money is actually going.
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Listen, there are some great apps and even some simple spreadsheets
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that can help you with this.
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One of the ones that.
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I love is called Simplifi, and that's from Intuit.
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It's very affordable and gives you the information you need.
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Listen, and a pen and paper are fine as well.
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Here's the key.
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The key is keeping track of the data.
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Then once you know where your money's going, you can start making
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intentional choices about where you.
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Want it to go prioritize your tithe, prioritize those needs, and
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then start looking at your wants.
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Now I like to call a budget an intentional spending plan because
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we'll choose to do those things that we set our intentions on.
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Now let's move to step two, and that's prioritize savings, even if it's small.
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The Bible encourages us to save and plan for the future, and
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I can already hear you saying.
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Yeah, right Ralph, I can't even figure out how to pay my existing bills.
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Now you want me to save, but hear me on this.
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It might seem impossible when you're living paycheck to paycheck,
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but even setting aside a small percentage of each paycheck can
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make a huge difference over time.
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Consider automating a small transfer from your checking account
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to a separate savings account.
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Each payday.
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Here's what I'm gonna encourage you to do.
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Treat it like a bill.
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It's a bill that you have to pay.
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Basically pay yourself first, and this can help you build a buffer
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for those unexpected expenses, which is key to breaking this cycle.
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Listen, I know when I was struggling years ago, I simply
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started by putting $20 per pay.
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In a separate savings account.
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It was just an an automatic thing.
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I never even saw it in my checking account.
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Well, guess what?
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I was just looking before I recorded this episode and I still do that today.
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And that money just continues to grow.
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See, 'cause it's all about starting that habit and breaking that cycle.
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I know that making these changes can feel overwhelming and,
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and maybe even a little scary.
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Listen, I was scared when I was going through it.
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You might be carrying guilt about those past financial decisions
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you've made or, or maybe you're feeling discouraged because of
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where you find yourself right now.
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But I wanna encourage you today, remember, change takes time, and it's
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all about progress, not perfection.
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That's what really matters because here's the big takeaway for today's show.
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God's grace is sufficient and he wants to walk alongside you in this journey.
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Think about the story of the ant.
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That's a funny story to tell it in the book of Proverbs, chapter
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six, verses six through eight, it talks about the story of the ant.
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So picture this in your mind, one of those colonies of ants.
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I, I remember having one of those cool ant farms when I was a kid.
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The ant diligently prepares for the future, not out.
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Fear, not at, not outta if you're at all, but out of wisdom.
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See, we can learn from this building.
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A solid financial foundation isn't about becoming wealthy overnight.
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And listen, I'm gonna tell you right now, if that's what you're looking for.
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This is not the show for you.
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I'm not gonna be able to tell you how to get rich quick overnight
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because that stuff doesn't exist.
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Building a solid foundation is about being responsible with what God has
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given us and trusting in his provision.
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Look at the book of Hebrews 13, five.
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It reminds us this, keep your lives free from the love of money and be
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content with what you have because God has said, and listen to me on this.
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Never will I leave you.
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Never will I forsake you.
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So focus on contentment and gratitude for what you already have while
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taking these practical steps forward.
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Let's go back to Caroline's story for a moment.
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She mentioned feeling like she was failing despite, she mentioned having a good job.
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And let me just tell you, this is a common feeling when you're living
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in that paycheck to paycheck cycle.
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And even if you have higher income levels, listen, I. I know people that make well
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over $200,000 a year, and guess what?
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They're still living in that cycle of paycheck to paycheck.
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It's just their bills are higher and their paychecks are higher.
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But you gotta remember this, it's important.
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Remember that living this way isn't always about a lack of income.
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Sometimes it's not about the amount of income you have.
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That's why I said I know people that make well over $200,000.
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Sometimes it's about how we're managing the income we have.
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Caroline, listen to me.
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The fact that you recognize this and you wanna be a better
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steward is a huge step forward.
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And by implementing a budget, prioritizing, savings, even those
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small amounts, you're starting to take control and you're moving
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towards that solid foundation that you sow desperately desire.
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Don't let the feelings of shame hold you back.
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Instead, embrace the journey with confidence.
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Knowing that God is with you every step of the way, remember what the
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scripture says, he will never leave you nor forsake you, and that is a
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beautiful piece of truth from God.
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So let's recap.
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Today we talked about the importance of viewing our finances
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through that lens of stewardship.
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Recognizing that God owns it all.
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We also covered two crucial practical steps, and I'm gonna
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encourage you to do these today.
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Creating a God-honoring budget and prioritizing
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savings even in small amounts.
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And remember, this is a journey.
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It's not a sprint.
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Be patient with yourself.
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Celebrate those small victories and keep your focus on honoring
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God with your finances.
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Now looking ahead to our next episode.
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We're gonna go even deeper into the power of planning.
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We're gonna be talking about how to create a financial plan that gives
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you freedom and stability so you can truly stop worrying about money.
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Listen, you don't wanna miss that, so make sure you join me tomorrow, and thank you
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so much for tuning in to Ask Ralph today.
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I pray this has been a blessing to you.
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don't hesitate to reach out.
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Remember this.
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You are not alone in this journey.
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I am here to walk with you every day, and with God's guidance and practical
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steps, you can break free from the paycheck to paycheck cycle and build
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a solid foundation for your future.
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So until next time, as I always say, stay financially savvy
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and make God bless you richly.
