Finding Peace through Prayer: A Guide to Deepening Your Connection with God

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Do you ever feel like your prayer life is running on empty?

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Like, you're just going through the motions without really connecting with God.

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That's a feeling many of us share.

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Today, we're going to explore some practical ways.

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To cultivate a vibrant.

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And impactful prayer life that will transform your relationship with God and bring more peace, purpose, and power to your daily life.

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It's time to take your prayer life to the next level.

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My friends.

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Hey there friends.

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Let's start by grounding ourselves in the word of God.

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This versus some first Thessalonians chapter five verses 16 to 18.

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And it says this.

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Rejoice.

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Always pray, continually give thanks in all circumstances for this is God's will for you in Christ.

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Jesus.

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Let's answer a simple, but very important question.

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Do you ever struggle with prayer?

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I know I have.

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It's easy to let the busy-ness and distractions of life crowd out or time with God.

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But here's the beautiful truth.

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God longs for deep, genuine connection with us.

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He's not looking for fancy words or religious formulas.

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In fact, he talked against that.

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He just wants our hearts.

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And first Thessalonians.

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Paul gives us a powerful model for cultivating a lifestyle of prayer.

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He says to rejoice, always.

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Pray continually give thanks in all circumstances.

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Now Paul, wasn't saying we need to be on our knees 24 hours a day, seven days a week.

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He was inviting us into an ongoing conversation with God.

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And that's really all prayer is where we infuse every moment.

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With his presence and perspective.

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So you ask Ralph.

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How do we put this into practice?

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Well, I'm going to give you four actionable steps to help you cultivate.

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A more prayerful life.

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The first is very simple.

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Start your day with God.

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Before you jump into your to-do list.

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Take a few minutes each morning to center your heart on God.

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Read a Psalm.

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Express your gratitude, lay your needs and concerns before him.

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Invite him into your day.

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It doesn't have to be long, even five to 10 minutes can make a huge difference in your life.

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As the saying goes, if you're too busy to pray, you're too busy.

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Make time with God, your top priority and just watch how it transforms your outlook.

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And your attitude.

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I've actually found reading a morning.

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Devotional helps me get centered in the morning.

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Or simply getting a daily scripture email that allows me to start my day in the word.

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Next you need to pray throughout your day.

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Look for opportunities to connect with God in the midst of your daily activities.

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Are you stuck in traffic?

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Pray for the people in the cars around you.

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Maybe you're washing dishes.

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Thank God for the food he's provided.

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How about paying bills?

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Nobody likes to do that, but ask for his wisdom and provision.

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The more, we train ourselves to turn our thoughts towards God.

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The more we'll experience, his peace and more importantly, his presence.

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I found myself sometimes struggling during the day with the stress of everyday life.

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And I simply ask God to whisper to me.

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And calm the storm.

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I spoke at length about calming the storm in last week, Sunday show.

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So I'll encourage you to go re-listen to it.

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If you haven't heard it.

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I love the old hymn that says prayer is the souls sincere desire.

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Uttered or unexpressed prayer.

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Isn't just about our words.

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It's the posture of our hearts.

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We can pray silently.

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We can pray verbally.

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We can pray through journaling through art or through music.

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So you've got to experiment different forms of prayer and find what helps you connect with God most easily in your life.

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It's not the same for everybody.

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Our next tip is essential.

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And you have to be real with God.

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One of the biggest obstacles to prayer is feeling that we have to have it all together before we come to him.

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But my friends, the opposite is true.

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God wants our raw.

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He wants our real, he wants our messy selves.

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He can handle our doubts.

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He can handle our fears.

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He can handle our anger.

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And he can handle our questions.

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In fact, he welcomes them.

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I find that when I'm at the most broken in my life is when I can truly feel the power of my connections to God and the power of my prayers.

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God wants us just as we are.

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He knows our truths.

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He knows our pain.

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And he knows what we need, even when we have no clue what we're supposed to do or how to deal with a particular issue.

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It's during those times that God is truly the great healer and the great physician.

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I guess the truth is this.

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The sick need a physician.

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So when we need him the most, we just need to be real with him.

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I remember when I was going through a tough time in my marriage.

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I mentioned that in this past Monday show.

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I was so broken.

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And I simply said to God, Hey, you know what I'm feeling, dude?

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You know, the hurt I'm feeling.

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Just fix it.

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That was the real me.

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I didn't need to talk about some great philosophical dialogue.

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I just need to be honest and Frank.

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I was hurt and I needed his healing.

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You can also think about David.

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The man after God's own heart.

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Read through the Psalms and you'll quickly see that David didn't hold back with God.

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He poured out his deepest pain and struggles as well as his greatest joys and triumphs.

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And because of David's authenticity.

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David experienced profound intimacy with God.

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And that is truly the goal of prayer.

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So don't be afraid to get real with God.

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He already knows what's in your heart.

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Prayer is about aligning our perspective with his not pretending to be something we're not.

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As the apostle Paul wrote.

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Cast all of your anxiety on him because he cares for you.

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That's from first Peter chapter five, verse seven.

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And the final step is to pray with others.

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While personal prayer is crucial.

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You got to do it.

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There's something uniquely powerful about praying with other believers.

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Jesus said it himself.

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Where two or three gather in my name there I am with them.

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That's right from the gospel of Matthew chapter 18 verse 20.

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When we come together to pray the holy spirit knits our hearts together.

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And multiplies our faith.

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If you're not currently involved in a prayer group of partnership, I want to encourage you to seek one out.

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It could be as simple as meeting with a friend for coffee once a week to pray for each other's needs.

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Or you could join a prayer meeting at your church or in your community.

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The key is to find a safe, supportive space where you can bear each other's burdens.

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And believe God for breakthroughs.

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I mentioned before that I played church league softball.

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And for an overweight aging man, this is a challenge in itself.

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But I will tell you that those group of guys are just what I need.

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Sometimes to really put things in perspective.

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And the camaraderie on the field is something I truly cherish.

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We all need to find those who will support us when we need it.

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But more importantly, we need to be there for others as well.

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Some of the greatest moments of my life have been when I've been able to simply listen to someone who needed an ear to hear.

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Cultivating a prayer life is not about religious duty or earning God's favor.

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You can't earn it.

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It's already yours.

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It's all about relationships.

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It's all about learning to abide in Christ to draw strength and wisdom from him.

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The more we soak in his presence.

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The more we'll reflect his heart to the world around us and boy, the world around us needs it now more than ever.

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Think about it this way.

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When you're in love.

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Been there done that.

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You want to spend as much time as possible with your beloved?

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You delight in their presence.

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You hang on to every word and can't wait to share your life with them.

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Guess what folks.

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That's how God feels about us.

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He loves us with an everlasting love.

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And invites us into intimate communion with him.

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Imagine that the creator of the universe.

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Loves us with an everlasting love and invites us into an intimate communion with him.

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How lucky are we.

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So as we close our time for today, I want to leave you with this challenge.

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Commit to growing your prayer life this week.

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Start each day with God pray throughout your daily activities.

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Be real with him about your struggles and joys.

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You don't have to use a filter.

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And seek out opportunities to pray with others.

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The truth is folks, little by little prayer will become like breathing.

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And we all have to do that to stay alive.

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Prayer will be natural.

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Continual.

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It will be a conversation with the one who loves you the most.

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I don't care how much you love your spouse or love your children.

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The one who loves you the most is God.

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The creator.

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That's the truth.

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So let's pray together.

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Heavenly father, thank you for the incredible privilege of prayer.

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Thank you that because of Jesus, we can approach your throne of grace with boldness.

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And confidence.

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Forgive us for the times, we've neglected this gift, renew our desire to seek your face.

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Above all else.

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Give us the discipline to prioritize our time with you.

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Help us to carve out space in our busy lives to listen for your voice.

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And align our hearts with yours.

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In the midst of life's demands and distractions.

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be our anchor Jesus.

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Teach us to pray with authenticity and faith.

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Remind us that you are a safe place for our doubts.

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You're a safe place for our fears and you're a safe place for our questions.

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Nothing is too big or too small to bring before you.

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Deepen our trust in your goodness and faithfulness.

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Surround us with a community of prayer warriors and meld our hearts together as we bear one another's burdens.

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And believe you for the impossible.

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Because you can make the impossible happen.

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Ignite our hearts with your compassion, for the lost and the broken.

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Use our prayers to release your kingdom on earth.

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Make us catalysts.

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Of your redemptive work in our families and our workplaces and our churches.

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And in our cities and our great country.

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May your will be done in your name.

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Be glorified in and through our lives.

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We love you.

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Lord.

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Be magnified in us today.

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In Jesus's mighty name.

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Amen.

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Let's take a moment to briefly recap what we covered today.

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Today we explored what it means to cultivate a lifestyle of prayer.

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We looked at four basic practical steps starting our day with God.

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Praying throughout our daily activities.

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Being real with God about our struggles and joys and praying in community with other believers.

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As we commit to growing our prayer lives, we will experience deeper intimacy with God.

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And partner with him to release his kingdom on earth.

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Well folks, that's it for today's episode.

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Remember this?

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God loves you like crazy.

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And he longs to commune with you.

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You don't have to over-complicate it.

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Just show up.

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Be real.

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And watch how he moves on your behalf.

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As always for more tips and resources on aligning your finances with your faith.

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Please share it with a friend and leave us a review on your favorite podcast platform.

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Well, thanks for tuning in.

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And as I always say, stay financially savvy and may God bless you on this Sunday.

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And may he communion with you and just reach out to him.

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And just talk to God directly.

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Don't overcomplicate a folks.

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Be well.

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